Advice

I wish I could tell you… 👇

I wish I could tell you where to find the perfect person but I can’t. I wish I could tell you that even when you do find the perfect person, the both of you will always get along and never have one disagreement together, but that wouldn’t be true. Love is a commitment and not a feeling. And if both of you can’t remain committed to each other when tough days present themselves, then how strong is your love for each other? I’ve seen so many people prematurely give up on relationships and throw everything away because the mood changed. I’ve seen so many people push the person away who loved them because they didn’t feel like doing the work on the hard days. If you think you can fall in love with someone without having your commitment to each other tested, then you are truly mistaken. If you truly want to be in a relationship with someone who you can win with in life, then you have to be strong enough to overcome a loss with that person every once in a while as well.