Don’t kill flowers growing inside of you for someone who doesn’t appreciate the way you bloom. Let yourself grow! The opinion of people doesn’t matter. Let the world think and make perception. You can’t change the way people think. The people who love you will always be there for you no matter how far you are. And the people who doesn’t appreciate your presence had no right to be there in your life.
Sometime you want to take a particular decision. You think hard and a you find yourself weak. You know that decision will change your life. You wanted to take the risk but dilemma of the consequences stops you from taking that decision. But one fine day you wanted to change the scenario and can’t live that particular life you are leading. That’s how the things changes and a you find a different version of yourself. A little courage is all you need. The courage to take a decision and you can change your life. The courage of being stubborn and the universe will fall in love with you! ~ SiLeNt PeN
Lets talk about how hard it is to open up to someone about being sad for no reason. Lets talk about how hard it is to explain to your friends and family that you have this heavy feeling in your chest for no reason. Lets talk about how hard it is to understand why you’re having a panic attack while just taking a walk back home. Lets talk about how hard it is to understand your own self and how scary it is to feel like the whole world is falling on your shoulders and you have no idea why. Lets talk about the things we never talked about! Lets talk about the things we never talked about. Lets talk..
Share and talk with the one whom you love. Talk to them😊
Once you start caring for someone, there is no going back. The situation will always remain the same. May be you deny from the fact that you don’t do but it will always remain somewhere in your core heart. It is hard to deny this fact! Agreed? I hope so 🙂
“Stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day. If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding. Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done. Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do; stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach. Just live the days as they come. Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.”
Love and infatuation are both intense emotions that one feels for another person. Infatuation is often misinterpreted as Love. But the two feelings differ in their actuality of love, intensity and final outcome.
Infatuation – Infatuation is basically an affection or deep admiration over someone’s appearance or characteristics or sometimes both. An example of infatuation is crush – it can be one sided. The image in person’s mind can be quite different than the true picture.
Infatuation is temporary in life and goes off after some period. It is reckless commitment to satisfy one’s all consuming lust. It takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass, burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness. Infatuation is delusional, not real.
Love – ❤️ Love, on the other hand, is the most powerful emotion known by humankind. It is mutual, extreme feeling build on the foundation of trust where you are wiling to do anything for the person you love, no matter how painful.
Love is a gradual process and happens over time. It is unconditional and real. Love is faithfulness, loyalty, confidence, willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person’s opinion a chance. Requires a lot of selflessness. It will deepen with the passage of time.
So there is no such thing as “Love at first sight”. With passing time you will get to know weather it is love, lust or just Infatuation. Self love is the best way to attract true love. Love yourself with all your heart, for who you are and for who you are not. If you don’t have love for yourself, you can’t expect to get it from someone else. True love allows you to be yourself and never ask you to change. True love is not about finding your completeness in another person but rather about sharing your completeness with them fully in order to grow and expand more and more each day.
Do share your thoughts about Love vs. Infatuation!
At the end of the day, love isn’t going anywhere. There is no need to rush something that you really aren’t prepared to have. Take your time enjoying another person’s soul. Take your time laying a solid foundation. Take your time sowing a good seed. Often times we don’t have the hindsight to see how much the work that we do in the beginning will benefit each other in the long run. When you build a house, you don’t rush laying down the foundation, you take your time. Wash each other off with encouraging words as much as you can. Listen to understand instead of listening to reply. Be patient with someone as you learn more about their perspectives and how they view the world. If you take your time understanding each other and going through the process, that process will take its time making sure that the both of you do not fail. Everything you do at the beginning of a relationship, will help you mold and keep your relationship. So take your time with love, it isn’t going anywhere.
Everyone has worlds within them. When you meet someone, your worlds collide. Your worlds may find harmony or they may be constantly at war with each other. There may be sparkles and life where your worlds meet or blazing fires and destruction.
Consider yourself lucky if you get a chance to be a part of someone else’s world. A world that they have built, brick by brick, over the years through their imagination, their own creation.
With the words they’ve been told, the stories that they have been part of. Scented with the perfume of their childhood and guarded by the days they’ve paid for in pain. Comforted by the love they’ve gathered and fueled by all the dreams they’ve ever dreamt.
Some people may leave you in the middle of their world with no compass. There begins your quest to find them. Through the darkest of their valleys and the brightest of their roads. The times that they’ve forgotten and the graves of memories they’ve buried. Take a whiff from the cool breeze that flows over their oceans and let their waves bury you. You’ll be washed away like the tides from a full moon.
You may find a home in their world or your footsteps will be washed away like those of many others who came to walk that beach. Don’t wish to destroy someone else’s world, rather nurture its beauty. Know its secrets and gather its ruins. Learn when you are in someone else’s world, appreciate its imperfections.
Be daring enough to enter someone else’s world for in this journey, you might end up losing yourself. Or in this trip you take, you might end up finding your own world.
When you’ve done all that you can do, and you still feel like you have so much further to go. When you feel like all that you have to give still isn’t nearly enough. When it seems that you will not be able to keep up everything that needs to be kept up for one minute longer. Stop and breathe. Look, really look at what you are expecting of yourself. You cannot always do it all. You cannot hold everything together perfectly and you cannot be perfectly composed every single day. It’s unrealistic. It’s ok to have “off” days. Bad days will pass just like they always do. There will be a brand new sparking day waiting for you tomorrow. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself.
Someone has written these beautiful words. Must read and try to understand the deep meaning of it. They are like the ten commandments to follow in life all the time.
1. Prayer is not a “spare wheel” that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a “steering wheel” that directs the right path throughout.
2. A Car’s WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, look Ahead and Move on.
3. Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it take years to write.
4. All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don’t worry, they can’t last long either.
5. Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond! If you get a Diamond, don’t forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!
6. Often when we loose hope and think this is the end, God smiles from above and says,”Relax, sweetheart, it’s just a bend, not the end!
7. When God solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities, when God doesn’t solve your problems HE has faith in your abilities.
8. A blind person asked St. Anthony: “Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?” He replied: “Yes, losing your vision!”
9. When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.
10. WORRYING does not take away tomorrow’s TROUBLES, it takes away today’s PEACE. Must share this beautiful lines with everyone.