Amazing how you can go through so much turmoil and ugliness in your life and still not become it. Two beautiful hearts will always be able to find the beauty in each other regardless of the downfalls each of them have been through. And even though you may have a past that you regret reflecting on, that still won’t stop the person who adores you from being a part of your life. Even on your darkest days, your presence alone can still be the brightest part of someone else’s day. The bricks from your past that you used to build up barriers, can also be used to build a loving home once the right person enters your life.
I wish I could tell you where to find the perfect person but I can’t. I wish I could tell you that even when you do find the perfect person, the both of you will always get along and never have one disagreement together, but that wouldn’t be true. Love is a commitment and not a feeling. And if both of you can’t remain committed to each other when tough days present themselves, then how strong is your love for each other? I’ve seen so many people prematurely give up on relationships and throw everything away because the mood changed. I’ve seen so many people push the person away who loved them because they didn’t feel like doing the work on the hard days. If you think you can fall in love with someone without having your commitment to each other tested, then you are truly mistaken. If you truly want to be in a relationship with someone who you can win with in life, then you have to be strong enough to overcome a loss with that person every once in a while as well.
“Everybody has a home team: It’s the people you call when you get a flat tire or when something terrible happens. It’s the people who, near or far, know everything that’s wrong with you and love you anyways. These are the ones who tell you their secrets, who get themselves a glass of water without asking when they’re at your house. These are the people who cry when you cry. These are your people, your middle-of-the-night, no-matter-what people.”😊
“Someday you will be faced with the reality of loss.
And as life goes on, days rolling into nights, it will become clear that you never really stop missing someone special who’s gone, you just learn to live around the gaping hole of their absence. When you lose someone you can’t imagine living without, your heart breaks wide open, and the bad news is you never completely get over the loss. You will never forget them. However, in a backward way, this is also the good news. They will live on in the warmth of your broken heart that doesn’t fully heal back up, and you will continue to grow and experience life, even with your wound.
It’s like breaking an ankle that never heals perfectly, and that still hurts when you dance, but you dance anyway with a slight limp, and this limp just adds to the depth of your performance and the authenticity of your character. The people you lose remain a part of you. Remember them and always cherish the good moments spent with them.”😊😊
Few people understand what it means to really be there for somebody. And that’s the toughest part about being on a journey, you realize the main ones that said they will ride with you, are the first ones to fall off. People make promises when the sun is shining and make excuses when the storm comes. That’s why I am always thankful for the rain. It washes away the unnecessary. The reality is, you could be amazing, genuine and sincere but still be overlooked. Having a good thing is so hard because meeting a strong person is so rare. So I’ve learned to understand when people run from me, I realize my kind of love ain’t for everybody.😊
Happy weekend 💕
Okay I know that there are terrible terrible people out there but listen; I also know that there are people who stop and smile at tiny plants growing out of sidewalk cracks, people who laugh so loud they snort, people who compliment others randomly, people who take pictures of their friends because they love seeing their friends happy, people who ramble about things that they’re passionate about, people who blush and stutter, people who are kind, people who are warm, people who love and love and love and love.
✍Somewhere we all are same because we all know how to love. ❤💕
She’s always been there for me
Even when I fell down from my knee
She tells me of the hard times she’s been through
In hopes that I won’t go through them too
She’s an independent woman of stature and grace
She has beautiful eyes and a lovely face
An audacious strength from deep inside
In her I know I can confide
She’s my guardian angel who’ll always be
A very special part of me
She takes pride in caring for her kin
She gives us hope and things to believe in
If I didn’t have her there for me
I wouldn’t be half the woman I turned out to be
To Every Mother ☺☺
The foundation of love and happiness begins with you. You can’t build something solid with someone else if you are still cracking and breaking on the inside. You will get the most out of love when you start bringing the best version of yourself to the table. Your partner will need you just like you need them. Your partner needs your emotional stability just like you need theirs. Your partner needs your wisdom and positive influence just like you will need it from them. Being in love is sharing the best version of yourself so that you both can rub off on each other and help each other grow. It’s unfair to demand that you need certain things from your partner when you can’t even produce the same fruit in return.
✍A better individual, will make an even better partner when in a relationship.👫
“When we meet someone and fall in love, we have a sense that the whole universe is on our side.
And yet if something goes wrong, there is nothing left! How is it possible for the beauty that was there only minutes before to vanish so quickly?
Life moves very fast. It rushes from heaven to hell in a matter of seconds.”
✍Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes
I still believe that a good heart will eventually find its way back to love. I still believe that no matter what you may have went through in your past, someone out there in the world is still praying to have a person like you one day. Just because you are single, that doesn’t mean that you lack importance or that you can’t be a blessing to someone else in the future. We have to start speaking victory over our love life and not defeat. Instead of saying, “I doubt I’ll ever fall in love again”, start saying, “My next relationship will be my best relationship.” I want you to understand that, good hearts don’t have expiration dates when it comes to love. There is no certain time frame or small window of opportunity that you have before your time runs out. You will fall in love again one day when the time is right, not because you time it right. Don’t let your good heart turn sour because you want things to happen on your own time.
P.S. Be patient because when you RUSH you CRUSH..The possitive mindset comes out of wanting to believe the best.. someone will come along to cherish and appreciate you and treasure you like a precious blessings/gift in life. Its not about how perfect someone is..it’s about how perfect they are for you.❤🤗