Life was never easy. People leave you when you need them the most. You can’t trust the timing of people leaving you in hard times. The one who will be there for you during your hard time is the only person who deserves to be with you during the hard time gets over. Just wait and watch!
Find someone whose weirdness matches with yours. Life will become easier. Those weird talks and discussions will be the only getaway from the world outside.
Each day will seem like a magic. The instant connection with your weird compatible partner will be the best therapy. You will understand the silence of your partner. May be that silence is weird for the outer world but for you it will be the best relation one could have with anyone.
Keep searching if you are unable to find any person as of now. But one day he/ she will come and you will definitely connect, an instant connection with your No more weird partner😉
“Stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day. If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding. Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done. Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do; stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach. Just live the days as they come. Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.”
Love and infatuation are both intense emotions that one feels for another person. Infatuation is often misinterpreted as Love. But the two feelings differ in their actuality of love, intensity and final outcome.
Infatuation – Infatuation is basically an affection or deep admiration over someone’s appearance or characteristics or sometimes both. An example of infatuation is crush – it can be one sided. The image in person’s mind can be quite different than the true picture.
Infatuation is temporary in life and goes off after some period. It is reckless commitment to satisfy one’s all consuming lust. It takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass, burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness. Infatuation is delusional, not real.
Love – ❤️ Love, on the other hand, is the most powerful emotion known by humankind. It is mutual, extreme feeling build on the foundation of trust where you are wiling to do anything for the person you love, no matter how painful.
Love is a gradual process and happens over time. It is unconditional and real. Love is faithfulness, loyalty, confidence, willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person’s opinion a chance. Requires a lot of selflessness. It will deepen with the passage of time.
So there is no such thing as “Love at first sight”. With passing time you will get to know weather it is love, lust or just Infatuation. Self love is the best way to attract true love. Love yourself with all your heart, for who you are and for who you are not. If you don’t have love for yourself, you can’t expect to get it from someone else. True love allows you to be yourself and never ask you to change. True love is not about finding your completeness in another person but rather about sharing your completeness with them fully in order to grow and expand more and more each day.
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Unfortunately, love doesn’t always give you the happy ending you want in the end. Sometimes you can be madly in love with someone and still know in your heart that, that person can never give you the kind of love and effort that you know you deserve. One of the hardest things to accept in life is knowing that, sometimes you were only meant to make the other person better for the next person. When some people don’t appreciate having a good person in their corner, sometimes that ended relationship is like a wake up call for them to get their act together for the next person. It doesn’t mean that something was necessarily wrong with you, it just means that they really didn’t have the tools to help maintain a healthy happy relationship with you like you wanted. Sometimes that is the only reason why you cross paths with certain people. You were never meant to be together, you were just meant to make them better for the next person. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow but, at least room was made in your life so the next person could love you like you deserve to be loved. ❤
Whoever gives you the most peace, deserves the most time. Anyone who can quiet the chaos from your day, is definitely worth keeping around. Anyone who can be there to listen to you vent, is definitely worth holding on to. Older couples will tell you, it’s the small things their significant other did that made them fall in love. It was checking on them all day when they were sick, that made them fall in love. It was being supportive through the hard times, that made them fall in love. It was being a friend first before trying to be more, that made them fall in love. It was being very encouraging and speaking positive things over their life, that made them fall in love. It was being very easy to talk to, that made them fall in love. It was praying for them, that made them fall in love. See, when you come across someone who makes your “spirit” feel at peace, you truly have met someone special. Keep that person around. The special ones care about your soul.
If they check on you from time to time for no reason at all, you have a special one. If they listen to you when you are frustrated, you have a special one. If they are very supportive of your dreams, you have a special one. If they free up time in their day just so they can hear your voice or come by to see you, you have a special one. If they speak positive things over you and into you, you have a special one. If you can consistently depend on them more than anyone else, you have a special one. If they take care of you when you are sick, you have a special one. If you can talk to them about anything in the world, you have a special one. If they can make you laugh even when you don’t want to, you have a special one. If they can make you smile even when you don’t feel like it, you have a special one. If they go out of their way to show you that they care about you as a person, you have a special one. Appreciate a “special one” when they are in your presence, because you may never meet someone quite like that ever again.
There is nothing more beautiful than waking up and knowing that you finally have who you need for the rest of your life. The peace that comes to your heart sometimes can’t even be described. You’ve been through so many things in the past with other people putting you through storms that, it’s nice to finally have someone who can love you and hold your hand while you both walk through them now. It’s nice to finally have someone that gives you the friendship inside of a relationship. It’s nice to finally have someone who can finish off your sentences or make you laugh when you aren’t feeling your best. It’s nice to finally have not just your partner in love, but your partner in life. Someone you can consult with when you need to make difficult decisions. Someone you can turn to when life isn’t going so well. When you have someone who is willing to walk with you through both the good and the bad without leaving you, that’s when you know you have a special one. There is nothing like having this person in your life.
We can go a lot further as a couple if we start looking at each other as teammates in love. We can win together. We can learn together. We can support each other together. We can lift each other up together. We can be each other’s hero together. We can even inspire and motivate each other together. We are not each other’s enemy. We have to get past fighting against each other, so that we can get to the other side of our blessings by working together. Take care of me, I’ll take care of you, and our love for each other will take care of the rest.