I hope you never spend restless nights wondering if you are enough for someone. Honestly, you are enough and you are magnificent. You are enough for the right people, the ones who matter.
The ones who are going to stick around but you deserve to know that some people aren’t going to stick around and that is okay. That is no indicator of your worth as a human being. It just means their story and your story weren’t meant to have the same set of pages.
You will find people who will see your light and realize that it matches their’s. Those people will be ready to share some pages with you. So open your book and let the right people in. Stop letting people who weren’t meant to have a chapter let you keep your book closed. You are enough for the right people. You are worthy and you are magnificent.
It’s okay to be a beginner at the things you are interested in. There is no reason to feel intimidated by people more advanced than you are, because they too were in your place at one point. Keep learning and growing and expanding in whatever it is that you love and let nothing and no one stop you. You don’t have to be at the same stage as someone else. You can just be at your stage and that one is okay too.
Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said. Someone still smiles when they think of the compliment you gave them. Someone silently admires you. The advice you give has made a difference for people. The support and love you’ve offered others has made someone’s day. Your input and opinions have made someone think twice. You’re not insignificant and forgotten. Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not.
Let me start out by saying no one is saying be alone forever. When coming out of a relationship like this especially, we have to heal and learn from it so that we do not repeat it and go through the same thing again. We have to heal from the abuse. We have to learn what parts of us ignored any red flags and our intuition letting us know something wasn’t quite right. That part of us needs to heal as well. We have to find out who we are after the trauma. For most, we have to learn to love ourselves and remember we are enough, no need to settle! Once is more than enough for anyone. So please heal before you deal. And learn, learn, learn!
Love and infatuation are both intense emotions that one feels for another person. Infatuation is often misinterpreted as Love. But the two feelings differ in their actuality of love, intensity and final outcome.
Infatuation – Infatuation is basically an affection or deep admiration over someone’s appearance or characteristics or sometimes both. An example of infatuation is crush – it can be one sided. The image in person’s mind can be quite different than the true picture.
Infatuation is temporary in life and goes off after some period. It is reckless commitment to satisfy one’s all consuming lust. It takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass, burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness. Infatuation is delusional, not real.
Love – ❤️ Love, on the other hand, is the most powerful emotion known by humankind. It is mutual, extreme feeling build on the foundation of trust where you are wiling to do anything for the person you love, no matter how painful.
Love is a gradual process and happens over time. It is unconditional and real. Love is faithfulness, loyalty, confidence, willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person’s opinion a chance. Requires a lot of selflessness. It will deepen with the passage of time.
So there is no such thing as “Love at first sight”. With passing time you will get to know weather it is love, lust or just Infatuation. Self love is the best way to attract true love. Love yourself with all your heart, for who you are and for who you are not. If you don’t have love for yourself, you can’t expect to get it from someone else. True love allows you to be yourself and never ask you to change. True love is not about finding your completeness in another person but rather about sharing your completeness with them fully in order to grow and expand more and more each day.
Do share your thoughts about Love vs. Infatuation!
The power of positivity is undeniably life-changing. Those who are able to find a way around tough situations don’t have a negative bone in their bodies. They keep their heads high and look for solutions instead. Here are some ways you can stay positive:
Gratitude is a severely underrated virtue. If you’re thankful for what you have and value your blessings, no matter how trivial they may seem, your whole perspective on life will change. You would start thinking more positively and note the difference immediately.
Humour undoubtedly relieves stress and anxiety so look forward to any hearty giggle that comes your way. Find humour even in situations that are far from ideal. You don’t have to take life seriously all the time. Sometimes it is just as well to laugh at yourself and brush it off.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE
Positivity is contagious. Staying around positive people will inevitably lift your own spirits and help you in gaining an optimistic outlook for yourself.
IDENTIFY YOUR SHORTCOMINGS
Ask yourself what brings you down, what is it that prevents you from being optimistic and how can you fix the situation. Work on your weaknesses one step at a time. Seek solutions and stay focussed.
LIVE IN THE MOMENT
Stay in the present moment. Don’t panic about the future. Focus on finding solutions and hope for the best. Getting too far ahead of yourself will get you nowhere and will only add to your stress.
I want to know about the madness of soul,
The aching of heart for whom we have lost.
The wandering of heart & mourning of deepest desires,
For the future we always wished to aspire.
I want to know what is beneath the mind,
How someone can lost behind the eyes.
The curiosity to know how the mad sees the world,
How the intellect becomes sane after his soul burn.
I want to know how to control the emotions,
How the world of hoping people runs out of devotion.
To know the limit of enduring heart and limitless mind,
To loose this race of soul I am okay! I am fine!
I want to learn about all the heartbreaks,
Finding an alternate to fix is the target.
I want to facilitate someone's life,
Assuring them of someone they belong will surely find.
I want to learn the things which Science can't prove,
The equations of Mathematics which were easily understood.
Following the Law and Physics of Life,
I wish to Master the Principle of Common Sense and Mind!