Advice

Are you an OVERTHINKER ?¿🤔

  1. No matter how tiny any issue is, he will dig into it with all his efforts until he satisfies himself.
  2. If anything goes wrong, regardless of what others feel, he will blame himself for whatever has happened even if he has a 0% contribution towards it.
  3. If he ever has an argument with someone, no matter how heated the argument is and even if he isn’t at fault at all, he will find reasons to blame himself.
  4. He will be the first one to say sorry after a fight because his overthinking mind renders him guilty every time.
  5. He will check all the possibilities regarding something before finally jumping into the conclusions.
  6. He will go to any limits to make someone close to him happy.
  7. He will imagine himself in the worst possible scenarios of something and later feel relieved that it didn’t actually happen.
  8. He will take time before suggesting someone with any ideas but makes sure that’s the best possible idea anyone can offer.
  9. He will have problems saying no to anyone for anything so that the others don’t feel bad.
  10. He has problems having an open conversation with people for he doesn’t want to be misunderstood.

“Don’t get too deep, it leads to over thinking, and over thinking leads to problems that doesn’t even exist in the first place.”
– Jayson Engay

@SiLeNt PeN


Advice

Let the world know what you think 💭

When you care about someone, show it. Allow yourself to act vulnerable. Give yourself permission to express your emotions. Don’t leave anything left unsaid. Don’t censor yourself. Use your voice. Say those three little words. Say whatever is on your mind. Be the most authentic version of yourself.

When you care about someone, don’t worry about appearing clingy or needy or overemotional. Don’t hold back the way you’re feeling out of fear it won’t be reciprocated. Don’t stay inside your comfort zone. Break out and take risks. Embrace the unknown. Be more spontaneous, more adventurous. Stop playing it so safe.

When you care about someone, put in the effort. Smile across the room. Send the first text. Give compliments. Plan outings. Make it clear you value their time and appreciate their presence. Don’t let them get to the point where they’re questioning whether you actually care. Don’t force them to guess how you’re feeling when you could come right out and say it to their face. Don’t put them through the process of dating games. Save yourself time. Save yourself the trouble.

When you care about someone, don’t let your fear get in the way of your feelings. Don’t let your discomfort convince you to keep your kindness inside. Speak from your heart. Love loudly. Let the world know what you think.

A few caring people can change the world. Being caring for someone is a blessing in disguise for them.💫😊 @SiLeNt PeN