Advice, love, Thoughts

Worth keeping around👫

Whoever gives you the most peace, deserves the most time. Anyone who can quiet the chaos from your day, is definitely worth keeping around. Anyone who can be there to listen to you vent, is definitely worth holding on to. Older couples will tell you, it’s the small things their significant other did that made them fall in love. It was checking on them all day when they were sick, that made them fall in love. It was being supportive through the hard times, that made them fall in love. It was being a friend first before trying to be more, that made them fall in love. It was being very encouraging and speaking positive things over their life, that made them fall in love. It was being very easy to talk to, that made them fall in love. It was praying for them, that made them fall in love. See, when you come across someone who makes your “spirit” feel at peace, you truly have met someone special. Keep that person around. The special ones care about your soul.

Blessing, love, Thoughts

Special one 👫❤

If they check on you from time to time for no reason at all, you have a special one. If they listen to you when you are frustrated, you have a special one. If they are very supportive of your dreams, you have a special one. If they free up time in their day just so they can hear your voice or come by to see you, you have a special one. If they speak positive things over you and into you, you have a special one. If you can consistently depend on them more than anyone else, you have a special one. If they take care of you when you are sick, you have a special one. If you can talk to them about anything in the world, you have a special one. If they can make you laugh even when you don’t want to, you have a special one. If they can make you smile even when you don’t feel like it, you have a special one. If they go out of their way to show you that they care about you as a person, you have a special one. Appreciate a “special one” when they are in your presence, because you may never meet someone quite like that ever again.

Advice

Take your time sowing a good seed🤗🌼🌿

At the end of the day, love isn’t going anywhere. There is no need to rush something that you really aren’t prepared to have. Take your time enjoying another person’s soul. Take your time laying a solid foundation. Take your time sowing a good seed. Often times we don’t have the hindsight to see how much the work that we do in the beginning will benefit each other in the long run. When you build a house, you don’t rush laying down the foundation, you take your time. Wash each other off with encouraging words as much as you can. Listen to understand instead of listening to reply. Be patient with someone as you learn more about their perspectives and how they view the world. If you take your time understanding each other and going through the process, that process will take its time making sure that the both of you do not fail. Everything you do at the beginning of a relationship, will help you mold and keep your relationship. So take your time with love, it isn’t going anywhere.