Advice

Communicate👫

Gone are the days when we had time, life’s busy now. If you are in a relationship with someone you love, live every available moment to the fullest. Don’t ruin your weekends because something happened on weekdays. Don’t waste the time you both spend together on silly problems. Don’t let petty things become big ones. Communicate, solve the disputes and live your weekends like you will remember it on weekdays.

Don’t ever sleep without settling the dispute with your partner. They will keep thinking that you don’t care about them and it will hurt them really bad.

Advice

Teammates in love ❤😉

We can go a lot further as a couple if we start looking at each other as teammates in love. We can win together. We can learn together. We can support each other together. We can lift each other up together. We can be each other’s hero together. We can even inspire and motivate each other together. We are not each other’s enemy. We have to get past fighting against each other, so that we can get to the other side of our blessings by working together. Take care of me, I’ll take care of you, and our love for each other will take care of the rest.

Advice

Self Esteem✍

So many people battle with self esteem problems everyday. So many people think that the cure to getting over their self esteem issues is being loved by someone else. And while another person’s love can help transform us and inspire us to grow into becoming better individuals, it doesn’t have the power to solve every personal problem that we find ourselves running away from. We have to love the skin that we are in. We have to stop making other people responsible for how we “personally” feel about ourselves. Love starts with self. Loving who you are makes it easier for other people to be in love with you. I said this before and I’ll say it again, “how we feel about ourselves, infects itself into our relationships with other people.” A low self esteem will have you dealing with a person that you have no business dealing with. A low self esteem will have you pushing away good people when it comes to love because you can’t even identify what it is on a very basic personal level when it comes to loving yourself. We have to take responsibility for taking care of our emotions first before trying to be in love with other people. 

Advice

Wait for the right person!😊👌☑

Amazing how you can go through so much turmoil and ugliness in your life and still not become it. Two beautiful hearts will always be able to find the beauty in each other regardless of the downfalls each of them have been through. And even though you may have a past that you regret reflecting on, that still won’t stop the person who adores you from being a part of your life. Even on your darkest days, your presence alone can still be the brightest part of someone else’s day. The bricks from your past that you used to build up barriers, can also be used to build a loving home once the right person enters your life. 

Advice, Thoughts

Everyone has worlds within them…🌍🌐

Everyone has worlds within them. When you meet someone, your worlds collide. Your worlds may find harmony or they may be constantly at war with each other. There may be sparkles and life where your worlds meet or blazing fires and destruction.

Consider yourself lucky if you get a chance to be a part of someone else’s world. A world that they have built, brick by brick, over the years through their imagination, their own creation. 
With the words they’ve been told, the stories that they have been part of. Scented with the perfume of their childhood and guarded by the days they’ve paid for in pain. Comforted by the love they’ve gathered and fueled by all the dreams they’ve ever dreamt. 
Some people may leave you in the middle of their world with no compass. There begins your quest to find them. Through the darkest of their valleys and the brightest of their roads. The times that they’ve forgotten and the graves of memories they’ve buried. Take a whiff from the cool breeze that flows over their oceans and let their waves bury you. You’ll be washed away like the tides from a full moon. 
You may find a home in their world or your footsteps will be washed away like those of many others who came to walk that beach. Don’t wish to destroy someone else’s world, rather nurture its beauty. Know its secrets and gather its ruins. Learn when you are in someone else’s world, appreciate its imperfections. 
Be daring enough to enter someone else’s world for in this journey, you might end up losing yourself. Or in this trip you take, you might end up finding your own world.

Advice

Motivational: Wisdom

*WISDOM for LIFE
👉 *”Never fight a man under GRACE because the GRACE he carries will DISGRACE you”.
👉 *”The death of a lion cannot be announced by a goat”.
👉 *”The future belongs to the Risk takers, Not the Comfort seekers”.
👉 *”The words of the elders do not lock all the doors; they leave the right door open”.
👉 *”A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple”.
 👉 *”Let not what you cannot do tear you from what you can do”.
👉 *“A child who asks questions will not become a fool”.
👉 *”The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain”.
👉 *”Be careful who you trust! Even Salt and Sugar are both white”.
👉 *“To Make A Difference In Someone’s Life, You Don’t Have To Be Brilliant, Rich, Beautiful, Or Perfect. You Just Have To Care”.
👉 *”Kindness is like butter, it works best when you spread it around”.
👉 *”The walls don’t only have ears; they can see too”.
👉 *”Don’t be easily deceived by appearances. Even  the leopard looks beautiful but has a bad heart”.
👉 *”It appears that everybody is a nobody trying to become somebody”
👉 *”Sometimes you have to play the role of a fool to fool the fools who think they are fooling you”.
👉 *“A girl may never get married if she waits for the “PERFECT MAN”.
👉 *”One Man’s food is every other man’s food, just because one fellow refuses to eat it doesn’t make it poison”.
👉 *“If you have a mother, there is nowhere you are likely to go where her prayers have not already been”.
👉 *”The only person that reads the terms & conditions is the one who writes it”.
👉 *“No matter how long the night, the day is sure to come”.
👉 *“A woman’s Greatest Perfume is the Fragrance of her Man’s SUCCESS”.
👉 *“A wise person knows that there is something to be learned from everyone”.
👉 *“It requires wisdom to understand wisdom; the music is nothing if the audience is deaf”.
👉 *”No matter how rich you are, you cannot pay for your sins”.
👉 *”This is what happens with those threatened by your success. First they try to ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”.
👉 *Give them a chair if they can’t stand your Success”.
👉 *”Be careful about the rumors you hear about a lady, it either comes from a man who can’t have her or a lady who can’t compete with her”.
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Advice, Thoughts

Embrace being wrong…🤗

Embrace being wrong

Stop searching for others to keep you distracted from what’s really important. Allow others to enter your heart and your mind, but don’t force anything which is  just not there. It will never be there.

Be alone. Seriously. You don’t have a single clue what it’s like to be lonely. You should. You know those people who get full nights of sleep? They sleep alone or they are blessed with a non-snoring partner. Isn’t that cool enough?
Tired? Stay in. Fridays are all yours. And your wallet will thank you later.
Stop complaining about what you have to do. Be positive and take what you can from every opportunity. I know early mornings are rough, but I promise if you cut down on the late nights, it will make all the differences. Plus, you’re not too terrible at your job, I suppose. 
Learn to let go. Let it go. Let him go. Let her go. Let every little thing or person that no longer serves you. Let them go.
If it hurts, good. But, you’ll be fine. You always are.
Continue to search, but don’t keep digging where you’re not welcome. Your time will come for lots of things. But, I promise, you won’t find what you’re looking for in someone else’s backyard.
Stop questioning EVERYTHING. Don’t ask “why? Ask “why not? But, obviously use your best judgement. You know wrong from right (usually). Choose what’s right, even if it doesn’t seem as fun. Trust me, you won’t be sorry.
When you are sorry, say so. But, stop apologizing to yourself.
You have nothing to be sorry for, other than the mere fact that you rock.
Have a good cry just because you can.
P.S.  Something is always not better than nothing. 

Advice

I wish I could tell you… 👇

I wish I could tell you where to find the perfect person but I can’t. I wish I could tell you that even when you do find the perfect person, the both of you will always get along and never have one disagreement together, but that wouldn’t be true. Love is a commitment and not a feeling. And if both of you can’t remain committed to each other when tough days present themselves, then how strong is your love for each other? I’ve seen so many people prematurely give up on relationships and throw everything away because the mood changed. I’ve seen so many people push the person away who loved them because they didn’t feel like doing the work on the hard days. If you think you can fall in love with someone without having your commitment to each other tested, then you are truly mistaken. If you truly want to be in a relationship with someone who you can win with in life, then you have to be strong enough to overcome a loss with that person every once in a while as well.