“Someday you will be faced with the reality of loss.
And as life goes on, days rolling into nights, it will become clear that you never really stop missing someone special who’s gone, you just learn to live around the gaping hole of their absence. When you lose someone you can’t imagine living without, your heart breaks wide open, and the bad news is you never completely get over the loss. You will never forget them. However, in a backward way, this is also the good news. They will live on in the warmth of your broken heart that doesn’t fully heal back up, and you will continue to grow and experience life, even with your wound.
It’s like breaking an ankle that never heals perfectly, and that still hurts when you dance, but you dance anyway with a slight limp, and this limp just adds to the depth of your performance and the authenticity of your character. The people you lose remain a part of you. Remember them and always cherish the good moments spent with them.”😊😊
SiLeNt PeN 
I so hear you ❤ I appreciate your vulnerability and the loss you shared. My heart is touched and open. Thank you. Sending you many blessings Debbie
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Thanks dear😊
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i say that losing anything from a goldfish to a loved one, puts a new hole in your heart proportional to the size of the lose. too often, people try to fill the hole with whatever they find. it’s not until the hole gets filled with good stuff can the real healing begin. no matter what attempts are made that hole cannot be perfectly closed. hence, feeling the twinge of loss long after the hole is seemingly filled.
the world would be a better place if we would only fill your hole with good stuff.
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Thank you for visiting my blog and for posting this. I just lost my son and it’s comforting to read your words.
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Thanks a lot 😊 I’m glad that you liked it.
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