Life is not a race-but indeed a journey. Be honest. Work hard. Be choosy. Say “thank you”. “I love you”, and “great job” to someone each day. Take time for prayer. Be thankful. Love your life and what you’ve been given, it is not accidental. Search for your purpose and do it as best you can. Dreaming does matter. It allows you to become that which you aspire to be. Laugh often. Appreciate the little things in life and enjoy them. Some of the best things really are free. Do not worry. Forgive, it frees the soul. Take time for yourself. Plan for longevity. Recognize the special people you’ve been blessed to know. Live for today, enjoy the moment.😊😊
I’m here to tell you that despite your painful past, you are still a good person. You still have a heart that someone is praying to have one day. You still have a smile or a charm that someone can’t wait to embrace one day. Sometimes when you are single, you start second guessing yourself. You start thinking that there are things wrong with you that are preventing you from having the right person in your life. But to be honest with you, all of us have flaws. We were not made to be perfect or live perfectly, we were made to be loved. The person who loves you one day, will love you enough to look past your flaws. They will take all of the things that you may feel like are your own personal shortcomings, and help you grow as a person because they are there for the long haul. When someone truly loves you, you will always be more than enough because in their eyes, you are the perfect person to have in their life. ❤💕
When you’ve done all that you can do, and you still feel like you have so much further to go. When you feel like all that you have to give still isn’t nearly enough. When it seems that you will not be able to keep up everything that needs to be kept up for one minute longer. Stop and breathe. Look, really look at what you are expecting of yourself. You cannot always do it all. You cannot hold everything together perfectly and you cannot be perfectly composed every single day. It’s unrealistic. It’s ok to have “off” days. Bad days will pass just like they always do. There will be a brand new sparking day waiting for you tomorrow. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself.
Today it’s time for self-compassion.
“Everybody has a home team: It’s the people you call when you get a flat tire or when something terrible happens. It’s the people who, near or far, know everything that’s wrong with you and love you anyways. These are the ones who tell you their secrets, who get themselves a glass of water without asking when they’re at your house. These are the people who cry when you cry. These are your people, your middle-of-the-night, no-matter-what people.”😊
“Someday you will be faced with the reality of loss.
And as life goes on, days rolling into nights, it will become clear that you never really stop missing someone special who’s gone, you just learn to live around the gaping hole of their absence. When you lose someone you can’t imagine living without, your heart breaks wide open, and the bad news is you never completely get over the loss. You will never forget them. However, in a backward way, this is also the good news. They will live on in the warmth of your broken heart that doesn’t fully heal back up, and you will continue to grow and experience life, even with your wound.
It’s like breaking an ankle that never heals perfectly, and that still hurts when you dance, but you dance anyway with a slight limp, and this limp just adds to the depth of your performance and the authenticity of your character. The people you lose remain a part of you. Remember them and always cherish the good moments spent with them.”😊😊
I am tired of holding it all in me. I feel lost.I feel like running away. I want to explore a new world, a lonely one.I know I never can utter a single word I feel and even if I do I wouldn’t ever be able to make them understand. Time taught me to be quite well but then again there are moments when I want to scream, scream so loud that the universe can hear me. I want to scream when the heart feel too weak to hold the pain any more, when the toughts get heavier than me, when the life long silence never get answered. Even the silence of the nature betokens the upcoming thunder then how long can I hold? The world couldn’t ever read the silent tears, mute words and the screams of the heart. We need soundproof rooms to enjoy the beauty of silence then again we fail to read them. Amazing world. Isn’t it??? You say you know me, you comprehend my feelings, but then again you want me to give them voice. I was never so comfortable with sound as I am with the silence and when the silent me begs to scream the hands run for the pen & the nib meets the pages of that old diary. They are the never failing friends. They never betray, they only heal. They know the deepest secrets, the wildest thoughts, the silent prayers, the scariest dreams, the breathless sobs, the loudest scream. They know everything. They read silence.🤗
P.S. Silence is not the absence of something, but the presence of everything…!!
Few people understand what it means to really be there for somebody. And that’s the toughest part about being on a journey, you realize the main ones that said they will ride with you, are the first ones to fall off. People make promises when the sun is shining and make excuses when the storm comes. That’s why I am always thankful for the rain. It washes away the unnecessary. The reality is, you could be amazing, genuine and sincere but still be overlooked. Having a good thing is so hard because meeting a strong person is so rare. So I’ve learned to understand when people run from me, I realize my kind of love ain’t for everybody.😊
Happy weekend 💕