Advice, Thoughts

Dear person reading this 👇

Dear person reading this,

You’re maybe going through a hard time right know, are feeling insecure and unimportant, but please know that you are a beautiful human being inside and out. 

This goes out to all of the people who have been broken but have been strong enough to let go. For the people who have hurt so badly that they felt they could never love again, but kept their head up. For those who feel like going back to their old lover to put all the pieces back where they belong in hopes everything would fit, but accept the cold hard truth instead. For the people that learn from their mistakes and never stop moving forward, even when they take two steps back. For the people that wish loneliness wasn’t a part of them, but put up with it anyhow. For the people who come home with no missed calls, but smile anyway. For the people that periodically miss the past, but are so much more excited for the future. For the people that have wounds still healing. For the people that have so much tied to their past relationship, but break those chains to start fresh. For the people that want to look back so badly, but focus on the road ahead. For the people that pick up the phone so tempted to call, but keep their dignity intact instead. For the people that never wanted to let go, but had to. For the people that still believe in love even after all of the hurt their heart has endured. For all the people that gave up not because they were weak, but because most times it’s better just to let go.😊

Advice

✍Never sacrifice who you are…

 

I’d like to ask you a couple of simple questions.

What if you could stop caring what other people think about you?

What difference would that make in your world?

Sometimes caring what others think seeps into every area of our life and it has a bigger impact on us than we might think. 

Far too many of us do things, or don’t do things, because we care what other people think.Our lives aren’t really our own. We’re not always doingthings because we believe in them, but because it’s expected, based on how we think other people see u.

“What would my colleagues think if I voiced my opinion and it was different from theirs?”

“If I change direction at school, in my career, in my life what would those closest to me think or have to say?”

What kind of life do we live when it’s mainly dictated by what other people think?

Especially when you consider life is so short that you don’t have time to live someone else’s life AND do the one thing that makes you unique.Imagine the possibilities of treasuring your uniqueness.Of never sacrificing who you are or who you want to become because someone else has a different perspective of you.

It’s time to love who you are both within and without as you move forward in life and stop caring what other people think about you.

Never sacrifice who you are, or who you aspire to be, because someone else has a problem with it.

 Instead, learn to love who you are inside and out as you forge ahead to your future.

Keep smiling 😊😊

Advice, love, Thoughts

There are people who…..👇

Okay I know that there are terrible terrible people out there but listen; I also know that there are people who stop and smile at tiny plants growing out of sidewalk cracks, people who laugh so loud they snort, people who compliment others randomly, people who take pictures of their friends because they love seeing their friends happy, people who ramble about things that they’re passionate about, people who blush and stutter, people who are kind, people who are warm, people who love and love and love and love.

✍Somewhere we all are same because we all know how to love. ❤💕

Advice

SUFFERING: Your Deposit In Life Account 🌌⏳

The most important thing in life is SUFFERING.

It is wisely said: ‘No Pain, No Gain’.

There is no joy in life without suffering.

However, most of us avoid sufferings as much as we can while aiming to achieve great things in life.

Suffering is the price to be paid for enjoying any type of happiness in life.

  • When you suffer for several years studying hard, you score top marks in exams
  • When you suffer for your children, the children make their future and make you happy
  • When you suffer and work hard at your profession, you achieve great success at your job
  • When you suffer failures in your life, you achieve great successes in life

Most people never succeed in life because they avoid suffering all the time.

Suffering is like your deposit in the life account while happiness is the like the withdrawals from it.

  • Can you withdraw anything from your account without making any deposit in it?
  • Can you enjoy any happiness in your life without suffering the legitimate pain for it?

Don’t ignore the legitimate suffering and pains in your life as they are key to your success and happiness.

Advice, Thoughts

You Fall In Love With Life, Instead Of A Person

This Is What Happens When You Fall In Love With Life, Instead Of A Person

 

“Who is that one person you really love?”

How long will you take before you take your name?

 

Falling is love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world and more so when you fall in love with your life. Finding the right partner isn’t the only thing life revolves around. There are so many things to be passionate about besides a person – music, literature, photography, writing and so on. When you fall in love with your life, you become responsive to your passions. Your life becomes more about exceling at your passions and enjoying your job. Being productive is one of the key factors to a happy and fulfilling life.

 

 

When we are in love with someone we tend to focus all our energy and invest all our time into that one relationship and we forget that other relationships in our life are as much important. When you are focused on things other than your love life, you will automatically invest in your family and friendships which fill your life with happiness and love. You will end up making a solid support system in your family and friends.

 

 

Falling in love with your life means that falling in love with yourself. You will walk away from people and situations that drain you. You start paying more attention to what helps you grow and bloom as a person. You don’t let the negativity around you, be it in the form of people or situations, affect you. As such, you now know how to zone out and come back to your original happy and peaceful self after a stressful situation.

 

Most importantly, your happiness is not dependent on a person, which I think is a very important thing to help you lead a happy life. When you are happy with yourself and your life, you won’t need people to make you happy. You will know how to create happiness, which is an amazing quality to exhibit.

 

And lastly, you don’t wait for the perfect moments to make you happy, you make the best of every moment for you believe that happiness doesn’t lie in the big things of life, but is hidden in those small little pleasures arranged in a chronological order.

So, love yourself enough to fall in love with the life you live for only then you will be nothing less than the best of you.

 P.S. LoVe YoUrSeLf To BrInG oUt ThE bEsT iN yOu…❤❤

Advice

10 Commandments to follow in life!

Someone has written these beautiful words. Must read and try to understand the deep meaning of it. They are like the ten commandments to follow in life all the time.
1. Prayer is not a “spare wheel” that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a “steering wheel” that directs the right path throughout.
2. A Car’s WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, look Ahead and Move on.
3. Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it take years to write.
4. All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don’t worry, they can’t last long either.
5. Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond! If you get a Diamond, don’t forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!
6. Often when we loose hope and think this is the end, God smiles from above and says,”Relax, sweetheart, it’s just a bend, not the end!
7. When God solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities, when God doesn’t solve your problems HE has faith in your abilities.
8. A blind person asked St. Anthony: “Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?” He replied: “Yes, losing your vision!”
9. When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.
10. WORRYING does not take away tomorrow’s TROUBLES, it takes away today’s PEACE.
Must share this beautiful lines with everyone.

Advice

The Password On Your Phone📱

DOES IT MAKE SENSE?  

“THE PASSWORD ON YOUR PHONE” 
Today, technology and modernization has made it in such a  way that every one want his/her privacy. The word “trust” is even questionable and no more trusted by people. There is password on almost everything from phone to everything we can, just to protect our information and keep our privacy. But what sense does it make when keeping a password on our phone send us or another to the grave instead of saving life? What then are we “securing”?. 

Three friends had an accident in a car and became unconscious. A stranger got to the scene and wanted to call for help. He had no phone. There were six mobile phones in the accident car but all had password on them. They all died as a result. 

A pregnant lady collapsed at home with her little daughter(a minor). The little girl had no idea of what was happening but saw her mother gasping for air. She picked her mother’s phone to call her daddy but there was a password on the phone. By grace, her big brother left his phone on his bed while going to school and she called the father and her mother was saved because her brother had no password on his phone else the pregnant woman would have lost her life. Whose fault would that have been? 

A young man died with so much wealth in an unknown bank. The information was on his phone. No one could access the information because there is password on the phone. 

My advice is this. You are too precious than the information you are securing on your phone. Only put password on your whatsapp, text messages, facebook, files, etc and leave the call side free. You may one day save your life or the life of your loved ones.  The password on your phone can be your death warrant.
Think twice. 

Please share your views😊

Blessing, love

Mother- Blessing In Disguise.. माँ।।

She’s always been there for me

Even when I fell down from my knee

She tells me of the hard times she’s been through

In hopes that I won’t go through them too

She’s an independent woman of stature and grace

She has beautiful eyes and a lovely face

An audacious strength from deep inside

In her I know I can confide

She’s my guardian angel who’ll always be

A very special part of me

She takes pride in caring for her kin

She gives us hope and things to believe in

If I didn’t have her there for me

I wouldn’t be half the woman I turned out to be

With Love❤

To Every Mother ☺☺

Thoughts

Paulo Coelho- Truely Blessed Author ✍

I can’t stop myself from sharing the best of Paulo Coelho. His work has changed so many lives. His books inspires you, leads you to an unknown place, gives you goosebumps, engages you throughout, touches your inner soul, teaches you to listen your inner voice, teaches you to keep harmony with nature…. ☺☺

  • “Never be ashamed,’ he said. ‘Accept what life offers you and try to drink from every cup. All wines should be tasted; some should only be sipped, but with others, drink the whole bottle.’

‘How will I know which is which?’

‘By the taste. You can only know a good wine if you have first tasted a bad one.”
― Paulo Coelho, Brida

  • It takes a huge effort to free yourself from memory, but when you succeed, you start to realize that you’re capable of far more than you have imagined. 

Visit your soul; don’t visit your past.

  • Blessed are those who do not fear solitude, who are not afraid of their own company, who are not always desperately looking for something to do, something to amuse themselves with, something to judge.

If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself.

And if you do not know yourself, you will begin to fear the void.

Paulo Coelho, “Manuscript found in Accra”

  • Losing a battle or losing everything we thought we possessed will bring us moments of sadness, but when those moments pass, we will discover the hidden strength that exists in each of us, a strength that will surprise us and increase our self-respect.

We look around and say to ourselves: ‘I survived.’ And we will be cheered by our words.

Only those who fail to recognise that inner strength will say: ‘I lost,’ and be sad.

Paulo Coelho, “Manuscript found in Accra”

-Keep sharing if you have any other quote by him. 😊😊

Advice

The Foundation Of Love and Happiness ❤

The foundation of love and happiness begins with you. You can’t build something solid with someone else if you are still cracking and breaking on the inside. You will get the most out of love when you start bringing the best version of yourself to the table. Your partner will need you just like you need them. Your partner needs your emotional stability just like you need theirs. Your partner needs your wisdom and positive influence just like you will need it from them. Being in love is sharing the best version of yourself so that you both can rub off on each other and help each other grow. It’s unfair to demand that you need certain things from your partner when you can’t even produce the same fruit in return. 

✍A better individual, will make an even better partner when in a relationship.👫