Be with someone👫👇

When it comes to love, the goal should be to share the best parts of yourself with the person you have the best time with. Be with someone who you can actually laugh with and be silly around. Be with someone who wants to see you grow and develop as a person. Be with someone who will have your back when it’s up against the wall. Be with someone who actually cares about you as a person. Someone who you can trust with your heart and not have to worry about them breaking you into a million pieces. So many people forget the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place. A relationship should be a place that encourages peace and happiness. It should be a place that is free of judgment and allows you the freedom to be who you truly are. It should be a place where you can consistently count on someone’s love. It should be your own personal safe heaven. 

P.S. When it comes to love…

Give the key to someone who

will unlock the love you have always held in your heart…💕

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Cherish what we have😊

​10 short stories :-
1) She was very excited today, after all the school was re-opening after a long summer break.

Now, once again, she could start selling stationery at the traffic signal to feed her family.
2) She, a renowned artist and a strict mother, often scolded her 6-year-old son for he could never draw a line straight.

As he breathed slowly into the ventilator, she begged him to make one more crooked line on the ECG.
3) “Everyone goes with the flow… but the one who goes against it becomes someone remarkable.”

Before I could explain this to the traffic police, the man issued me a Fine.
4) Their love was different; She was happy every time he kicked her in the stomach.

Every time he kicked she loved him more. She waited for the time she would hold her baby for the first time.
5) All my toys are yours…!

Read her brother’s death note.
6) They took his father,

and only returned a flag.
7) At 25, I became a mother of one; at 27 I became a mother of two; and today, at 55, I have become a mother of three!

My son got married today, and brought home his wife!
8) “Born to rich parents, this boy is so lucky,” exclaimed the neighbors!

Somewhere in heaven, three unborn sisters cried.
9) “You ruined my career, I was supposed to be an executive director,” she thought to herself.

The little angel held her finger tightly and she forgot everything; A mother was born.
10) Once a 5-year-old boy was standing barefoot in the shallow water of the ocean.

He was repeating the same sentence to the waves – “Even if you touch my feet a thousand times, I won’t forgive you for taking my parents away 👍👍☝👌

P.S. We all have are own version of life. We all have different stories but still we should always cherish what we have. 😊

#Sadbuttrue series (iv)✍

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1. Keeping a grudge is like keeping garbage you can’t use, yet it’s taking up space and no one is paying you rent. #SadButTrue

2. Malice is a demonstration of your faith in the pain caused you in the past. It keeps you stuck. #SadButTrue

3. Rather than perpetuate pain. Promote peace, stir up joy and spread love. #SadButTrue

4. They hurt you?Don’t hold it against them. Hold them up in prayer. #SadButTrue

5. Some people may think this post is targeted at them. No. Everyone alive will need one of the points at some point. #SadButTrue

6. Forgiving people is not just a good idea. It’s a GOD idea. Actually, more than an idea. It’s an instruction. #SadButTrue

7. How you respond to a situation can be more important than the situation. #SadButTrue

8. Your ability to overlook an offense determines the degree of dominion you’d exercise over many other things. #SadButTrue

9. Wisdom will help you solve problems. A large heart will help you accommodate people. You need both. #SadButTrue

10. When all is said and done, let the love of God in your heart pour through your daily walk.

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Look Back! Don’t wanna grow up again!😒

*Look Back*

Somewhere between being woken up on birthday mornings by our parents and staying up till 12 to receive phone calls from our friends, we grew up.
Somewhere between, “Yay! I can write with a pen from tomorrow” in school and “Dude, do you have an extra pen?” in college, we grew up.
Somewhere between “Dad! I want these chocolates to distribute them in school for my birthday” and “hey, my treat today”, we grew up.
Somewhere between playing Snake on our dad’s ‘dabba’ mobile and playing Temple Run/Candy Crush on our smartphones, we grew up.
Somewhere between using Paint in weekly computer classes and using Instagram filters on phones, we grew up.
Somewhere between Pinball and Counter Strike, we grew up.
Somewhere between Maths and Accounts, Civics and Public Administration, we grew up.

Somewhere between Cartoons and News Bulletins, we grew up.
Somewhere between “Just 5 More minutes, Mom” and pressing the snooze button on our phones, we grew up.

The hardest part about change is that it is inevitable.

Looking back now, isn’t it a wonder that we ever even wanted to grow up? 👶👦👧

Don’t run away from LOVE❤

Sometimes people will run away from your love. It doesn’t necessarily mean that something is wrong with you. It doesn’t mean that you are a bad person. It doesn’t mean that you were not loving and didn’t know how to treat them right. Sometimes people will run away from your love because they are truly not ready for a serious long term committed relationship. It’s messed up when you think the world of someone, and then they turn around and leave you with the weight of the world on your shoulders. It’s messed up when you have put so much time and energy into someone, and then they just throw everything away like you never even mattered to them. When someone runs away from your love and all you tried to do was be the best woman or the best man that you could be for them, let them go. Your love is not meant for the one who left, your love is meant for the one who decided to stay. Your love is meant for the person who doesn’t run when things get hard. Your love is meant for the person who doesn’t give up on you when you are not at your best. Your love is meant for the person who wants to be with you, just as much as you want to be with them. 💕

Realize👈

In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you. They are the rare and amazing people who remind you why it’s worth.

The best in you is yet to come!🤗Have patience😊

Couples Who Argue Actually Love Each Other More❤👈

According To Psychiatrists, Couples Who Argue Actually Love Each Other More

At the end of the day, it’s not really about whether you have arguments in your relationship or not. It’s about how well you move on from moments of conflict and find a resolution as a couple. 

It may seem counterintuitive at first, but it’s true that the constant presence of arguments in a relationship may actually mean that couples love each other a whole lot. Technically speaking, an argument is a discussion between two people who are expressing opposing points of view. In this event, both people are honestly manifesting their personalities and ideologies through words directed to another person. We are forced to confront the idea that not everything is going to go as smoothly as we want it. We are going to have to make some compromises and we are going to have to make some concessions. Relationships are like muscles in bodybuilding. It may take a few breaks and damages to occur before it can be rebuilt to something greater and stronger. However, like everything else in life, there must always be a balance. While arguments can be good for a relationship, people must know that not all arguments carry equal weight. If we are going to argue in our relationships, we must always do so in a healthy and civil manner so as to preserve the chemistry and bond in the union.

You should always be careful with your words. Words have the power to be either a piercing sword or a gentle blow. Always try to stay on topic whenever you’re arguing, and make sure to never bring up past arguments. Make an effort to listen to each other as opposed to just waiting for an opportunity to make your point. If you are feeling angry or upset during the argument, be honest about it and let your partner know. Lastly, maintain a sense of grace, class, and dignity during your arguments. You have to be adults about it. You can’t afford to be acting immature if you want to save your relationship. No successful relationship has ever been built on the personalities of two immature people.

It should be about the strength of your love and your determination to overcome any obstacles together.

Relationship advice 👫

Be the kind of couple that can still communicate with each other even when it’s very difficult. Learn to work through your differences and disagreements with each other by keeping one thing in mind, “no matter what happens, this person will always be my partner in love and in life”. So many of us want a relationship that is built for happiness, but don’t take time thinking about having a relationship that is built to overcome adversity too. If the love is worth it and the other person is special to you, work it out. Don’t prematurely give up on something great just because you encounter a few bad days. You should be with someone who even on your bad days, you still wouldn’t choose being with someone else.

Keep Loving 💓

The time will come..⏳⌛

“The time will come 

when, with elation 

you will greet yourself arriving 

at your own door, in your own mirror 

and each will smile at the other’s welcome, and say, sit here. Eat. 

You will love again the stranger who was your self.”

– Derek Walcott

That 3 p.m. thought 🤔

“I don’t want to be the person you think of at 3 a.m. when you are lonely. I want to be the person you think of at 3 p.m. in the middle of a stressed out day ,when you need peace.”❤